Courtship /Marriage

Before you say yes…(5 things I considered before saying yes to courtship, and you should too).

My husband and I were friends for 4 years before we got into a relationship. The first 3 years was more of a casual friendship, but the last year was when things got more intimate and I got to interact more closely with him, enough to determine that I could pursue a relationship with him.… Continue reading Before you say yes…(5 things I considered before saying yes to courtship, and you should too).

Courtship /Marriage

4 relationship lessons from my blender.

I love how the Holy Spirit uses the simple things in my environment to teach me about relationships. I bought my blender based on recommendation from my mom. She told me how good it was and how I can blend anything with it. Her recommendation was good enough for me, so I did no research… Continue reading 4 relationship lessons from my blender.

Courtship /Marriage

Letters to my (imaginary) single friend Pt 1.

Dear Cantu, I remember a time when I was in Bible school. I was in the third and final level of the school and I met a married woman who was just starting level one. We got talking and she was wishing she could do all 3 levels as quickly as I did them, but… Continue reading Letters to my (imaginary) single friend Pt 1.

Courtship /Marriage

Looking forward to 2022

It’s that time of the year when most people are reflecting and planning. A new year brings new opportunities to make our lives better which is why we make these new year resolutions. Keeping them however requires self-discipline, which most of us haven’t mastered. Might I suggest to you by the way, that keeping a… Continue reading Looking forward to 2022