Courtship /Marriage

7 steps to reconcile after you hurt your partner.

Have you ever sat in a quiet room with your partner knowing you hurt their feelings, wishing you could reconnect and the relationship could go back to normal, but feeling helpless as to how to go about it? It can certainly feel lonely when your partner is hurt and you’re sorry in your heart but… Continue reading 7 steps to reconcile after you hurt your partner.

Courtship /Marriage

A marriage lesson from cooking (2).

Last week thursday, I made peppered grilled chicken&fried potato with sauce. It was a meal my husband and I thorougly enjoyed for two reasons: 1) It wasn’t a routine meal in our home. 2) It was very delicious 🤤 In Nigeria, due to the epileptic power supply, we never owned a grill, so I had… Continue reading A marriage lesson from cooking (2).

Courtship /Marriage

5 Major adjustments every newly wed must make!

(Guest post by Faanu Onigbinde). I’m curious to know what assumptions single folks have about marriages while they are still single. For me, I mostly worried about “culture shocks” in marriage. How different would my life be? Would marriage seem like such a big deal as people say? What would living with another human from… Continue reading 5 Major adjustments every newly wed must make!

Courtship /Marriage

What I’ve been reading.

I’m an avid book reader (in case you don’t know). I read to relax, to learn, and also to be inspired. Of course, I love reading about marriage and all it entails. I’ve been reading “Conflict resolution for couples” by Paul Shaffer and I came across this insightful and thought provoking list. Pls think about… Continue reading What I’ve been reading.