Courtship /Marriage

How to protect your emotions while waiting for the right one(1).

No one keeps their valuables where it can be easily accessed. Your heart( the seat of your emotions) shouldn’t be easily accessible to just anyone. Proverbs 4:23 "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life." (NKJV). People gain access to your heart by what they say to you,… Continue reading How to protect your emotions while waiting for the right one(1).

Courtship /Marriage

I have feelings for someone else…

This is a sequel to “Before I got married”. If you haven’t read it, please do so first so you can better understand what I share in this post. Today, I will be talking about emotional affairs, and the decisions you can make to safeguard yourself from having one, so as to build the godly… Continue reading I have feelings for someone else…

Courtship /Marriage

Before I got married…

One of the biggest lessons I learnt during my single years was this - I can decide who to have feelings for. You see for me this was huge, because having fed my mind constantly with romance novels, and movies, I was used to the idea that having feelings for someone that you just can’t… Continue reading Before I got married…

Courtship /Marriage

3 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE TO FORCE A MAN TO DO.

Have you ever found yourself in a relationship, maybe even a godly relationship, where you have to constantly "motivate" your man to do something or be something? For some reason, ladies seem prone to always have to motivate or push a man towards something that seems good to them. We have been doing this long… Continue reading 3 THINGS YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE TO FORCE A MAN TO DO.