Courtship /Marriage

5 Major adjustments every newly wed must make!

(Guest post by Faanu Onigbinde). I’m curious to know what assumptions single folks have about marriages while they are still single. For me, I mostly worried about “culture shocks” in marriage. How different would my life be? Would marriage seem like such a big deal as people say? What would living with another human from… Continue reading 5 Major adjustments every newly wed must make!

Courtship /Marriage

How to keep the spark in your marriage.

In the past couple of years, I have seen firsthand what makes marriage very different from courtship. How the spark that makes courtship fun and exciting, can fizzle out as years go by in marriage. One difference that stands out to me is what I’d like to call the “feeling-action cycle”. In courtship, all your… Continue reading How to keep the spark in your marriage.

Courtship /Marriage, Parenting

It’s Valentine’s Day?

To be honest, the day just sort of crept on me this year, maybe because hubs and I have got “bigger fish to fry”. I know the day is past, but this thought of mine remains evergreen: Can God use your relationship? If God were to rate your courtship or marriage for His use, what… Continue reading It’s Valentine’s Day?

Courtship /Marriage

One vital key to succeed in marriage!

Leaving and Cleaving is one of the most important keys to a successful marriage. There are many needless struggles that couples go through simply because they permit excessive family interference. Your parents will find it hard to leave you, they raised you for the better part of their lives and maybe even see you as… Continue reading One vital key to succeed in marriage!