Courtship /Marriage

4 relationship lessons from my blender.

I love how the Holy Spirit uses the simple things in my environment to teach me about relationships. I bought my blender based on recommendation from my mom. She told me how good it was and how I can blend anything with it. Her recommendation was good enough for me, so I did no research… Continue reading 4 relationship lessons from my blender.

Courtship /Marriage

7 steps to reconcile after you hurt your partner.

Have you ever sat in a quiet room with your partner knowing you hurt their feelings, wishing you could reconnect and the relationship could go back to normal, but feeling helpless as to how to go about it? It can certainly feel lonely when your partner is hurt and you’re sorry in your heart but… Continue reading 7 steps to reconcile after you hurt your partner.

Courtship /Marriage

How to keep the spark in your marriage.

In the past couple of years, I have seen firsthand what makes marriage very different from courtship. How the spark that makes courtship fun and exciting, can fizzle out as years go by in marriage. One difference that stands out to me is what I’d like to call the “feeling-action cycle”. In courtship, all your… Continue reading How to keep the spark in your marriage.

Courtship /Marriage

7 signs you’re dating an abusive person!

Just like everyone else, I was shocked and heartbroken by the news of the killing of this vibrant minstrel of God, by no one else but her own husband, the one person whose duty it is to love her. After having vented a lot, I decided there’s no point crying over spilled milk, let’s help… Continue reading 7 signs you’re dating an abusive person!