Courtship /Marriage

Letters to my (imaginary) single friend Pt 1.

Dear Cantu, I remember a time when I was in Bible school. I was in the third and final level of the school and I met a married woman who was just starting level one. We got talking and she was wishing she could do all 3 levels as quickly as I did them, but… Continue reading Letters to my (imaginary) single friend Pt 1.

Courtship /Marriage

Looking forward to 2022

It’s that time of the year when most people are reflecting and planning. A new year brings new opportunities to make our lives better which is why we make these new year resolutions. Keeping them however requires self-discipline, which most of us haven’t mastered. Might I suggest to you by the way, that keeping a… Continue reading Looking forward to 2022

Courtship /Marriage

How to protect your emotions while waiting for the right one (2)

In the conclusion of last week's post (if you missed it, scroll to the end of this page to read it first, so as to lay a proper foundation for this post) I mentioned that you should focus on friendship building conversations, not romance enhancing ones, because when the romantic lights are on, it may… Continue reading How to protect your emotions while waiting for the right one (2)

Courtship /Marriage

How to protect your emotions while waiting for the right one(1).

No one keeps their valuables where it can be easily accessed. Your heart( the seat of your emotions) shouldn’t be easily accessible to just anyone. Proverbs 4:23 "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life." (NKJV). People gain access to your heart by what they say to you,… Continue reading How to protect your emotions while waiting for the right one(1).