Biblical relationship wisdom for Christian singles who want clarity in choosing a spouse and building a godly marriage.
My husband and I were friends for 4 years before we got into a relationship. The first 3 years was more of a casual friendship, but the last year was when things got more intimate and I got to interact more closely with him, enough to determine that I could pursue a relationship with him.… Continue reading Before you say yes…(5 things I considered before saying yes to courtship, and you should too).
Dear Cantu, I remember a time when I was in Bible school. I was in the third and final level of the school and I met a married woman who was just starting level one. We got talking and she was wishing she could do all 3 levels as quickly as I did them, but… Continue reading Letters to my (imaginary) single friend Pt 1.
One of the biggest lessons I learnt during my single years was this - I can decide who to have feelings for. You see for me this was huge, because having fed my mind constantly with romance novels, and movies, I was used to the idea that having feelings for someone that you just can’t… Continue reading Before I got married…
Over the years, I have written many words of advice to you, but today I want to go deeper, and really pour my heart to help you along on this journey of love. First, let's all agree that it's hard to be single when you really desire to be married. People typically have a lot… Continue reading Dear single lady