Courtship /Marriage

Letters to my (imaginary) single friend (pt 2)

*Married women should read this too Dear Cantù, I’m honestly glad that I get to write to you again, because there’s been a lot on my mind, and of course writing to a friend is a great way to take some load off. Last month I told you that building or deepening your relationship with… Continue reading Letters to my (imaginary) single friend (pt 2)

Courtship /Marriage

How to protect your emotions while waiting for the right one(1).

No one keeps their valuables where it can be easily accessed. Your heart( the seat of your emotions) shouldn’t be easily accessible to just anyone. Proverbs 4:23 "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life." (NKJV). People gain access to your heart by what they say to you,… Continue reading How to protect your emotions while waiting for the right one(1).

Courtship /Marriage

How to avoid emotional affairs.

This is a sequel to “Before I got married”. If you haven’t read it, please do so first so you can better understand what I share in this post. Today, I will be talking about emotional affairs, and the decisions you can make to safeguard yourself from having one, so as to build the godly… Continue reading How to avoid emotional affairs.

Courtship /Marriage

Before I got married…

One of the biggest lessons I learnt during my single years was this - I can decide who to have feelings for. You see for me this was huge, because having fed my mind constantly with romance novels, and movies, I was used to the idea that having feelings for someone that you just can’t… Continue reading Before I got married…