Courtship /Marriage

How to have uncomfortable conversations with your spouse.

Even in the most loving of relationships, there are those moments when the subject is sour and the conversation is hard. Sometimes, it could be the big issues, like finances, parenting, in-laws, sex. It could also be the little things like “who is not doing enough to help in the house” or “who is not… Continue reading How to have uncomfortable conversations with your spouse.

Courtship /Marriage

Honeymoon sex tips for virgins.

Heyyy! You did it. You kept your virginity until your wedding! Wow, that is so uncommon these days and I am super proud of you. Now that you’re here, married and ready for sex, how do you proceed? Maybe you’ve heard different stories about the pain, the awkwardness, the blood etc. and that has set… Continue reading Honeymoon sex tips for virgins.

Courtship /Marriage

A marriage lesson from cooking (2).

Last week thursday, I made peppered grilled chicken&fried potato with sauce. It was a meal my husband and I thorougly enjoyed for two reasons: 1) It wasn’t a routine meal in our home. 2) It was very delicious 🤤 In Nigeria, due to the epileptic power supply, we never owned a grill, so I had… Continue reading A marriage lesson from cooking (2).

Courtship /Marriage

5 Major adjustments every newly wed must make!

(Guest post by Faanu Onigbinde). I’m curious to know what assumptions single folks have about marriages while they are still single. For me, I mostly worried about “culture shocks” in marriage. How different would my life be? Would marriage seem like such a big deal as people say? What would living with another human from… Continue reading 5 Major adjustments every newly wed must make!