Courtship /Marriage

How to communicate with your spouse without fighting!

So Mr O has subtly (but not so subtly) been on my case to make videos of my write ups. I’ve been putting it off because, firstly, I am writer! it’s my talent, my solace, my getaway, just everything! Secondly, how do people ever have the time to do a full blown makeup, get fully dressed just to sit in their own homes to make a video?

Anyway, I was writing this post two days ago, and halfway through it, it occured to me that this would probably be great as a video post. And in that same second an email dropped about making videos. Okay .This has definitely has gone beyond my husbands push alone.😂

So here I am at 5am turning a blog post to a video.😂

It really was a learning curve. There were so many new things to learn online and things to just figure out on my own.

But I did it 💃🏽💃🏽. Makeup and sitting pretty too , all without taking a bath 😂

At the end of the day, one thing you won’t have to figure out on your own is “how to communicate with your spouse without fighting”. Watch the video below and tell me how I did on this first trial (after a mighty long while).

It can be exhausting to be in love with someone yet feel unheard & unloved, because every time you try to talk, it ends up in a fight. Learn how to communicate without it leading to another fight!

P.S: you don’t need to be married to watch it. This principle works for courtships too!

Until next week,😎

With all my love❤️

Mrs O😊

4 thoughts on “How to communicate with your spouse without fighting!”

  1. Aww! Thanks for this piece of information. It is interesting to read and watch.
    I enjoyed watching and I love that you’re embracing spontaneity 😊 even in your blog because I know how much you love ‘routines’.
    PS: I was starring at your brows and lipstick shade the whole time. 😍


    1. Thank you! Spontaneity is still a journey for me though, lol. Awwwn I’m blushing. Thank you! You are so supportive Funmi. I’m blessed to have you.


  2. Hi Mrs O, I enjoyed the video, and its content very much. It didn’t seem like your first video at all, rather you were quite natural. Keep it up, and hope this becomes the first of many.


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